When I comment with "*hugs*", "*safe hugs if wanted*" or "I read this" and a link to this page, I mean all of the following: - I read your post. - I am thinking of you. - I love you. I mean it. (LY. MI.) - I care about you. As much as I care about myself, my hubby and/or my family. - I wish that I could help you to feel better. - Maybe these *hugs* will help? - Please know that I care and am hurting with you. For you.